Your Grace

How the heck does one get the Your Grace trait in Character Burning? I mean, the only place it is listed is Born Noble but it is not the first trait on the list and you must take the first trait.

The first trait is the only one you must take, but you may take the other traits. So make a Born Noble character and buy Your Grace as per Lifepath Traits, page 89.

Also “Requires X trait” means you have to buy it, not buy it before you take the LP.

In fact, you can’t take it before you take the LP, because you choose all your lifepaths before assigning any traits.
I only stress this because if you had to assign traits as you go you wouldn’t be able to afford Your Grace with the single point from Born Noble, but luckily it doesn’t work like that.